- Understand what you are really feeling. Why every emotion you are experiencing right now, even the ones that confuse or shame you, makes complete sense
- Reconnect with who you are. Gentle reflections to help you begin finding yourself again beyond the relationship, the roles and the identity you have lost
- Recognise the patterns that held you back. Discover how people pleasing and boundary struggles quietly shaped your relationship, and how to begin changing that
- Five small, practical first steps forward. Nothing overwhelming, nothing unrealistic, just five gentle actions you can start today even when you are exhausted
I'm Lucy Higgins, a confidence coach specialising in helping women over 40 rebuild their sense of self after separation. I've been through my own divorce and I know first-hand how much it shakes your confidence, your identity and your sense of what comes next. Everything I create comes from that experience and from a genuine belief that the woman on the other side of this is someone worth fighting for. You are in the right place.